|A random picture of some houses on Kingsmere|
(I couldn't find a picture of the new school).
As long term readers will recall, I was an opponent of the original plans to do this. Not only from the selfish point of view that the old school was practically on our doorstep and the new one is half an hour's walk away, but from a traditionalist point of view too. The thought of the lovely old building , which so many generations of Bicester children had passed through being sold off to become offices or something filled me with sadness.
We've known this was coming for a long time and it's been a major influence on our long term plan to move home, but here we are, still here deliberating about where we are going to live and the new school is up and ready to go. The children will walk out of the gates of the old building next Tuesday for the last time.
But, and this is a big but, having now had a tour of the new school I have to say, I'm absolutely blown away by it. Lovely, spacious and modern, the interior is light years ahead of the old building. The lovely "Round" room, a very attractive shared area and superb classrooms are only part of the story. There are now kitchens, with catering run by a local firm who provide incredibly good quality food on a budget, I know because we've tried it - for example there is none of the awful gristly meat I remember from my school days - all the meat is sourced from high quality local butcher Peter Goss and it's a similar story for the other ingredients.
Not that my kids are planning to indulge, Ollie informing me that despite the high quality fayre on offer he will continue to require a Marmite sandwich on a daily basis. Still, maybe that will change when they see for themselves what's on offer. At least they have a choice, we didn't even have that in my early days at Primary School where you got what you were given, some of which was quite inedible. Of course, being the devious little scamp I was (and still am, probably) my pals and I created plenty of innovative methods of disposing of the horrors.
A scraggy bit of lamb could conveniently be coughed into a tissue and placed in ones pocket for later disposal. Very handy if hiding in the toilets during a game of "Hunters" at playtime when we were meant to be outside. The dinner ladies used to come in and check but a well timed drop of the offending article into the toilet behind a locked door would create a sufficiently audible plop to convince them you were having a poo so they would go out again.
If you didn't like something they would insist you tried a "bit". The worst horror of all was the semolina. I would ask for a bit - which would be one tablespoonful approximately. Then I'd swirl it round and round the bowl to make it look like I'd had a full bowl. This never failed. As for the mashed potato, complete with black bits, we had an even more creative way of getting rid of that. By placing some on a spoon and creating a catapult across the edge of the table, great lumps could be flicked up in the air and if you got it right, they would stick to the ceiling and not come back. I'm not sure what was in this potato, some sort of superglue I reckon, because it would stick hard and fast. I'm pretty sure we never got caught doing this and it became a school tradition. Many years later I went back to the school for my younger brother's school fete and just happened to glance upwards to see that the mashed potato was still alive and well and forming its own ecosystem on the ceiling.
Back to the new school: outside the school there are acres of open space. You could fit a full sized football pitch on the field and watch all the action from the banks on the side. The school even has it's own home and away changing rooms. The inside gym is similarly impressive.
All in all, I'm hugely impressed and pleased that despite my earlier reservations they are going to such a wonderful place. Of course none of this helps much with our ongoing dilemma about when & where we are going to move - all is certain is that we are going to move out of this house in 2016. The number of considerations that have to be weighed up changes and piles up on a daily basis - schools, jobs, house prices, family & friends. It's pretty much all we've talked about on a daily basis for most of the past year and still the research goes on. If it sounds like we're procrastinating over the decision, then so be it - a decision that affects the rest of one's life isn't to be taken lightly. A final decision will only be taken when we've examined every possible angle.
Louth remains an option - I do love it up there, but it's not the only option, but in the past few weeks we've checked out Brackley, Towcester and Kingsmere itself. If we can pull the funding together to be able to make a realistic stab at moving there then it wouldn't be out of the question, The books are selling well, so who knows? As new estates go, it's got a lot going for it and if we could get in there, at least we wouldn't be tearing ourselves away completely from our family and friends and at least it's sufficiently far away from Bicester town centre to feel like we're in a new place. And there's nothing to stop us moving again if it doesn't work out.
If we do stay here my new year's resolution is to become more sociable because since I've been working from home I've become incredibly reclusive and it's easy to become isolated. This carries over to when I go out, lately I've found myself standing alone on the playground too often. I need to make the effort more with people I already know and make new friends too. I love interacting with people and I'm not doing anywhere near enough. Had coffee with a friend this morning and meeting another for a drink tomorrow night, that's a good start but I need to do more wherever I end up living. Parental loneliness is something I'm sure many of us have experienced at one time or another and it doesn't have to be that way. I have found most people to be friendly and approachable if I make the effort - so I will be more in future. So watch out if you see me heading your way in the playground, I may be planning to start a conversation :-)
Decisions, decisions. The aim has always been to reach a decision by the end of February so we still have a little time. I'll just keep doing what I'm doing - researching areas and cramming as much information into my overloaded brain as I can. You can never have too much information, especially when it's such a life changing decision as this.
The fantastic new school has certainly put some ++ points in the staying column. I seem to constantly have The Clash's "Should I stay or should I go?" running through my head these days.
Jason Ayres is the author of a range of bestselling time travel novels as well as three non-fiction humorous diaries. Find out more here: Books by Jason Ayres